It's All My Fault

Helping Christian mothers break free from people-pleasing and over-functioning to walk in quiet strength and unshakeable peace

a practical, scripture-rooted solution for Christian mothers who are tired of parenting from guilt

This is for Christian mothers who:

  • Say yes when they mean no, then regret it five minutes later

  • Feel overly responsible for how others feel

  • Stay calm until they can’t anymore, then snap or shut down

  • Worry their kids won’t like them if they’re too firm

  • Can’t relax unless everything and everyone is “okay”

  • Second-guess decisions that might upset someone

  • End up doing everything because it feels easier than explaining or enforcing

  • Try to keep the peace at all costs and lose themselves in the process

This weekly digest will help you:

  • Break the cycle of over-doing, over-rescuing, and over-apologizing

  • Stop over-explaining and start leading

  • Parent without losing your mind, voice, peace, or witness

  • Let go of false guilt and emotional responsibility that doesn't belong to you

  • Build internal strength that holds up in real life, not just in theory

  • Learn to trust your instincts, decisions, and convictions without needing everyone's approval

  • Become a woman your children feel safe with, not because you're nice, but because you're stable and grounded

What you’ll get in your weekly digest:

  • A specific core truth to anchor you in Scripture, not shame

  • A breakdown of one underlying root behind people-pleasing, over-functioning, or emotional reactivity

  • A clear, step-by-step mindset shift or reframe to apply in your real life

  • A simple, actionable weekly assignment to start interrupting old behavior patterns

  • A thoughtful journal prompt or reflection to deepen your awareness and bring it to God

  • Real examples that help you understand the “why” behind your default responses—and how to choose differently

* this is a paid Substack *

investment is $8/month or $80/year, cancel anytime

*this does not include personal feedback, you can find that in my Mother U membership*